The season of endless weekends of eggnog, cheer, mistletoe's and the hotty toddy is upon us. Don't just be another face in the crowd, be a rock star guest!
1. Dress to Impress
Depending on what kind of holiday party it is will determine your wardrobe. If it is for work, stay with a sleek, modern style. I'm not saying be stuffy, but a great ponte dress with statement necklace and vibrant pumps will grab everyone's attention, but not in a way that will provide for watercooler fodder on Monday morning. No one wants to be that girl. For a party with close friends or family, something a little trendier and sexier is totally appropriate. Great winter shorts with textured hose and a new, cool tuxedo jacket will have heads turning and will give you a reason to show off all those lunges you've been doing!
2. Bring a Host Gift
This is a southern tradition that doesn't get enough credit. Something simple like a new playlist, your favorite holiday candle scent, or even homemade treats are a great way to show your host or hostess that you appreciate the invitation!
3. Don't Be Too Fashionably Late
Anyone who has planned any kind of party or event knows how stressful the process can be. The minutes leading up to the big event are anxiety ridden...what if no one comes?! There's a 15 minute window that's appropriate, but tardiness more than that is disrespectful.
4. Be a Mingle Master
Don't back yourself into a corner, and as hard as it is, put that crackberry away for the night. This will make you more approachable, and if you're flying solo this is super important because you don't want to be that schmuck in the corner. If you only know a select group at the party, venture out and make new friends! To avoid that awkward first time conversation lull, start off with a compliment! Who doesn't love to hear nice stuff about themselves?
5. Shake Yo Ass...But Watch Yoself
It's a party, so I encourage you to have fun. Dance! Drink! Be merry! But know your limits. We aren't 19 year olds at a frat house, puking in the bathroom or making a jackass of yourself will only put a downer on the mood and most likely piss your host off. Also, in the age of Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube, any move you make is most likely being captured, so make it a good one!
6. Know When to Go
Every host has subtle hints of when it's time to wrap it up. Most will start doing dishes or cleaning, taking out the trash, or complaining about what a long day they have ahead of them the next day. Don't be the one that stays until kicked out...it's a party, not a sleepover.
7. Send Your Thanks
An old fashioned personalized thank you note is always appreciated, but even a phone call or text would be appropriate the day after the fete. This lets your host know you loved the party and the effort it took into putting it together.
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