Dating a co-worker definitely has its challenges. Working together and living together can sometimes seem like purgatory (he's everywhere!) but there can also be a lot of good reasons to give that hot co-worker a shot, and no, guaranteeing a raise isn't one of them!
Ever been on a really bad, awkward first date? Ever wish there was a resume or evaluation you could get before wasting a perfectly good Saturday night? Well, if someone has made it past your HR department, at least they're sane enough to get hired!
Working with your lover can also give you a significant insight on how he/she deals with adversity and challenges. Most couples don't have this until moving in together or if a crisis ensues. This is a great way to gauge the crazy! Do they talk to themselves, pace, or drink enormous amounts of coffee when stressed out? Expect the same at home. Is this person aggressive, goal-oriented, and always striving to "make it happen" at the office? Expect the same at home.
Working with your honey boo boo can have its downsides, too. People tend to intertwine the both of you. You hit your monthly goals a week early? Expect both of you to be congratulated. Your boyfriend having problems with co-workers? Expect to be dragged into your manager's office for a little chat too. The biggest downside? You're always together. There when you wake up...there on your lunch break...and still there when you're falling asleep! The importance of individual hobbies and time with friends really comes into play with this situation.
All in all dipping your pen in the company ink shouldn't be as taboo as it is or once was. You have someone who shares your passion, a built in support system, and best of all...you're guaranteed to get lucky after the company Christmas party!
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