Oscar Wilde

      "Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood." --Oscar Wilde

I'll admit it...women are crazy. All of us, in one way or another, so it's just a waste of time trying to figure us out. We over-analyze, worry too much, change our minds with the blink of an eye, and can start to cry during a Kleenex commercial. Every girl has something that makes her a little crazy, but one thing is a common denominator for us all: all women just want to be loved. 

Love and its' definition is very personal, but every girl wants to feel wanted, feel appreciated, and feel needed. It's encoded in our DNA, (I have no proof of that actually), and from a very early age we are taught that love, soul mates, and romance define a life worth living. Once we find that "forever love" we assume that the rest is easy as pie...that's where all the movies and fairy tales end, right? 

Trying to make love last is an everyday job, and just like any other job, if you feel under-appreciated or unwanted...the crazy may start to seep out. Here are some relatively simple things to keep your woman happy...and maybe control the crazy. 

                          1. If you love her, tell her. We can never hear it enough. 
                          2. Tell her she looks pretty every once in a while. Nothing constant, but knowing              you still find her to be beautiful helps keep those pesky "inadequate" fights at bay. 
                          3. Say good morning and good night...everyday. 

Pretty simple, right? Basically, it's a lot easier to love a woman than try to understand her. There will be good days and bad days, life's usual ups and downs, so don't add more stress by trying to figure us out. Just give us a love worthy of a fairy tale.